A London Family Between the Wars by M.V. Hughes – #1940Club

The title to M.V. Hughes’s A London Family Between the Wars is only half accurate, and belies the fact that it is part of a series. You might be familiar with A London Child of the 1870s, which was published by Persephone and is the only other one I’ve read. Along the way she also covers the 1880s and 1890s – before jumping through to the interwar years. In 1940 this was, of course, very recent history.

So, yes, it is about a family between the wars – but by no stretch of the imagination are they in London. The village they live in, Cuffley, is probably firmly within the London commuter belt now – but it is a village, and when the Hughes family lived there it clearly feels very much like a village isolated from the world around it.

Perhaps one of the reasons that M.V. Hughes skipped from the 1890s to the interwar years is because her husband has died. Her only allusion to this is on the first page, ‘I was suddenly left a widow’ – I’m not sure what he died of, though Wikipedia says it was in 1918 so may well have been at war. She doesn’t dwell on the sadness, but she does talk about her sons – with the extraordinary names Vivian and Barnholt, and the rather more common-or-garden Arthur. At the start of the memoir they range from new-adult to early-teenager, and she writes with love and respect of them all. In-jokes are hard to convey in a way that means anything to the reader, but she does manage to give the sense of the best sort of family – the security and affection, and the safety they feel in teasing each other without endangering the relationships between them.

The anecdotes she tells them, and the lives they lead that gradually grow into greater maturity away from the family home, were all very pleasing. But somehow I now don’t remember any of them – Hughes successfully portrays an atmosphere rather than uniquely interesting quotes and incidents.

You might know that one of my favourite things – in fiction or non-fiction – is when people go house-hunting or move house. In A London Family Between the Wars they move across the village once they’ve outgrown their little house – to a new build. But for some reason haven’t quite checked that it is finished before they move in…

The best of a big worry is that it drives out all the little ones. My annoyance at being overcharged for the removal soon gave way to my dismay at the state of our new home.  Of course I had reckoned on our removing-workmen to put most of the furniture in position. But the parquet-flooring of the big room had not been begun. The wooden bricks were occupying the floor in piles. Not a single thing could be placed there. So our piano and Chesterfield-couch, our Welsh cupboard and dresser, oak chest and chairs, all had to be dumped in the garden.

The next revelation was that there were no stairs. A nice big ‘well’ was there, but the ghost of a stair. A ladder was propped up for our use in the manner of Jacob’s dream, and the beds were hoisted up the well by means of ropes. So, at all events, thought I, there will be somewhere to sleep.

That certainly puts any of my house anxieties in the shade! The stairs don’t turn up for quite a while, and they manage to make do. ‘Making do’ is quite a theme of her life, indeed, and relatable to people reading the book in 1940.

Hughes wasn’t making most of her money from writing – she also worked in the education profession. Not much as a teacher herself any longer, but in assessing other teachers’ lessons – and the exam papers that they wrote. Much of the book is taken up with tales from these worlds, and (though I have no personal interest in teaching) I found her discussions of how best to teach really interesting. In a suitably anonymised way, she shares fascinating examples of the best and worst teaching she has witnessed – and some sentences could equally well have been written 83 years later: “Our noble Ministers of Education have probably never in their lives entered the portals of an elementary school. I should like to rub their noses in a few of them.”

Overall, it’s an interesting and engaging memoir, and Hughes’ personality is what holds it together. She is charmed by nature and by people’s foibles, but is also quite no-nonsense herself. She has a few nearby friends but otherwise largely wants to be left alone, cherishing connection with her sons above all. Of course, most of the book is about a time before 1940, so it’s not all revealing about life in the period of the 1940 Club – but modernity is looming towards the end, and there is a sense that the countryside is changing. Every generation believes this, of course, and it is instructive to see something like this written so long ago:

For years after our settling here a great feature of our pleasure was the unusual beauty of our walks. There were two specially shown to visitors with pride: our star turn was a long grassy glade through the woods, with its varying colours; especially when the season was right for striking a secret route across a field into a copse thick with wild hyacinth. A walk in another direction was almost as good, for it was across fields and over stiles, up and down hill, past a real farm, and producing in spring at one stage in the walk a generous show of daffodils.

And in the autumn we could roam the fields close at hand for mushrooms – more than we could consume; while for blackberries we hardly needed to do more than push out our hand.

But now we are met with barbed wire, notices to keep to the pathway, to beware of the dogs, ‘You have been warned’, and other such chilling deterrents.

Plus ça change…

13 thoughts on “A London Family Between the Wars by M.V. Hughes – #1940Club

  • April 14, 2023 at 8:26 am
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    This sounds delightful and more appealing than the A London Child in the 1870’s (based on your tea and books discussion). Yet another one for my (long!) list. I love the photo of your bookcase, the book and the blanket; I found just looking at it was evoked a lovely feeling of comfort and cosiness!

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    • April 14, 2023 at 6:08 pm
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      yes, I couldn’t remember what I’d thought of 1870s book, except that it clearly hadn’t made me race to read the others. And yes, it is a lovely cosy flat, except when it’s freezing!

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  • April 14, 2023 at 11:14 am
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    I read the earlier books in the trilogy as a kid – my mum was reading them and we shared an interest in this type of memoir. I have a copy of this which is a 1981 reprint and I think I must have been given it for a birthday or Christmas at 12+, and bought a secondhand box set of the OUP paperback editions of the first 3 books to match.

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  • April 14, 2023 at 11:24 am
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    I read the earlier books in the trilogy as a kid – my mum was reading them and we shared an interest in this type of memoir. I have a copy of this which is a 1981 reprint and I think I must have been given it for a birthday or Christmas at 12+, and bought a secondhand box set of the OUP paperback editions of the first 3 books to match. My grandparents worked for OUP so I do have a bit of a thing for OUP publications, especially reference books and more vintage editions of stuff (but more recent Oxford World’s Classics as well.

    I just googled and found this article by Adam Gopnik from the Guardian in 2005.

    https://www.theguardian.com/books/2005/nov/12/featuresreviews.guardianreview28

    It looks as if Molly’s older two sons were named after two brothers who both died quite young, and the youngest after his dad. Her husband died in a carriage accident when their sons were quite young – assuming he was the same age as her he would have been around 48 at the start of the First World War.

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    • April 14, 2023 at 6:07 pm
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      Ah, a carriage accident – how sad. And yes, I suppose he was too old for WW2 active service, good point.
      I used to work at OUP myself, so also have that fondness!

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  • April 14, 2023 at 1:31 pm
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    This is a great series that a friend gave me and I had forgotten about. It occurs to me that if my list of the books I own included their pub date I would have realized I had a lot more read or unread 1940 books than I knew.

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    • April 14, 2023 at 6:06 pm
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      I spent forever updating my LibraryThing catalogue with correct dates… and then still found this time that I had a couple 1940 suggestions that turned out to be published in 1939 when I investigated further.

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  • April 14, 2023 at 3:11 pm
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    I’ve had these books in my sights but must move this one, at least, up. So hard to think today that Vivian, Marion, Beverly, and more really were men’s names. Good review.

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    • April 14, 2023 at 6:05 pm
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      Yes! Such funny names for men to have had.

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  • April 14, 2023 at 4:08 pm
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    I was reminded of RC Sherriff and Greengates, when they move into a new build on what we would think of as a housing estate and love it for it’s newness and closeness to the countryside, I expect that very soon became a bypass. I love the ‘make do’ mentality and do think that we’ve lost it, ‘you get what you’re given’ seems to have disappeared, now that so many of us can just take more. . .

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    • April 14, 2023 at 6:05 pm
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      Oh I love that book – hadn’t thought about the impending bypass!!

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  • April 14, 2023 at 8:33 pm
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    Oh interesting, Simon – I think I owned her first book once (though whether I still do is anyone’s guess), but I didn’t know about this one. Does sound lovely!

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  • April 21, 2023 at 6:15 pm
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    I was sure I’d read this but it must have been pre-1997 as it doesn’t appear on my blog or in my reading diary index. A good one for the Week.

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